How 2022 Will Redefine What Relationships Mean to Us!

2022 is a powerful portal year! 2022 has a synchronicity of three 2’s in it’s numerology. “3” is our number of creation and portal opening! “2” is our number of divine partnerships. And 2+2+2 adds up to 6, the number of universal love and consciousness. What does all of this mean for us? That 2022 will be a transformative year for all of our relationship sectors!   

2020 and 2021 were in no way “normal”! How we connect to others changed drastically during the pandemic. Many of us were faced with the realities of who and what was important to us over the last two years. 2022 wants us to redefine what relationships and partnerships mean for us going forward! How do you connect to others? Who has truly been showing up for you these last two years? In what ways are your relationship beliefs being challenged? These are all great questions to ponder throughout this year.

Here are some journal reflections to help you get started on defining what relationships mean to you:

What do I define as a healthy relationship? Who set these foundations for me?

Whether it was family or friends, your ideas about relationships stem from inner beliefs! Where those beliefs come are important to acknowledge, especially when figuring out what you desire in relationships. You may want to reflect on if the relationships you viewed when you were younger were the healthiest examples? Your wants and desires may have also changed with age! The more honest we are about what we need, the more we are able to manifest the partnerships in our lives that feel fulfilling. 

What is “relationship goals” to me?

Everyone has couples they admire on social media or the internet. We hear the term “relationship goals” thrown around loosely. But real relationship goals come down to our aligned morals and beliefs with our partners! What do you define as your own personal goals in partnerships? How does that partner make you feel and what does it look like? When manifesting partnership, it’s important to focus on the feelings and emotions you want inspired within you. Physical attraction is important, but emotional health and spiritual connection is truly what matters. Make sure it feels good first, no matter what it looks like on the outside!

What is your partnership “vision”?

Visualization is important when manifesting and creating new energies in our life! Write down words that inspire you, collect images that make you feel romantic, place these on an illustration board or corkboard. Hang your visualization board in a space that feels sacred and good to you. Meditate with this energy imagining that it is already in your life! Most importantly, believe that it is possible for it to come true. You are deserving of a partnership that feels good to you and supportive!

Do you believe you are worthy of a healthy partnership?

A lot of times, we struggle with manifesting divine partnership because of a lack of self worth! But when you know you are innately worthy of beautiful things, it will flow naturally to you. Do not settle for anything less than what it is that you want partnership wise. Stay focused on what you desire, answering the universe when opportunity arises. When you are clear on what you want, you will be able to recognize it immediately when it arrives in your life! Not settling for less than what you deserve and believing you deserve better is key to finding partnerships that are reciprocal.

2022 will be a powerful and transformative year for us all when it comes to relationships! Remember the lessons you have learned about partnership in the previous years. Speak gratitude for those experiences, for they have equipped you for the blessings that are coming your way. Most importantly, use your intuition to guide you when creating new connections. Only you know what’s best for you and who is meant to be on this journey alongside you! 



Featured photo: Shingi Rice/Unsplash

Ellen Bowles is a creative, healer, and writer from Los Angeles, CA. Ellen is the co-author of ASTROLOGY SOS: An Astrological Survival Guide to Life, published by Hardie Grant UK and Chronicle Books. She has been featured in publications such as Well+Good, Bustle, PopSugar, and InStyle.

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